Potty Training Tips
Start with a positive attitude
Approach potty training with enthusiasm and patience. Your child will pick up on your positive energy. Children are incredibly intuitive and sensitive to their parents’ moods, so if you approach potty training as a fun and exciting milestone rather than a stressful obligation, your child is more likely to respond positively. Smile, cheer them on, and use encouraging language like 'You’re doing such a great job!' or 'I’m so proud of you!' This can help reduce anxiety and turn each trip to the potty into a confidence-building moment. Even setbacks can be opportunities to teach resilience if handled with warmth.
Know the signs of readiness
Don’t rush into potty training before your child is ready. Look for clear signs such as staying dry for longer periods, expressing discomfort with dirty diapers, or showing interest in others using the toilet. Some children may also tell you when they’re about to go or ask to be changed immediately after. Starting too early can lead to frustration for both parent and child. Remember, every child is different—some may be ready at 18 months, others not until 3 years. It’s not a race. Waiting for readiness increases the chances of a smoother, quicker, and more positive potty training experience.
Establish a consistent routine
Children thrive on consistency and routines, and potty training is no different. Start by scheduling regular potty breaks throughout the day, such as after meals, before bath time, and before bed. This helps your child get used to the idea that there are specific times to try using the toilet. Use visual or audible reminders like a song or timer to make it fun. Consistency helps build habits, and habits help reduce accidents. Over time, your child’s body will sync with the routine, and they’ll begin to anticipate potty time naturally, which builds confidence and independence.
Make it fun and engaging
Turn potty training into a fun adventure rather than a chore. Use colorful potty chairs, reward charts with stickers, fun books, or songs about potty time. Some parents even let their child pick out their own 'big kid' underwear as an exciting milestone. You can also use apps or games that encourage potty learning in a playful way. Positive reinforcement—like giving a sticker or high-five after a successful trip—goes a long way. When potty time becomes a joyful and positive activity, your child will be more motivated and less resistant. Fun keeps things lighthearted and turns pressure into progress.
Use encouraging language
Words are powerful tools when it comes to building your child’s confidence. Always use positive, supportive language during potty training. Praise their efforts, even if they don’t quite make it in time. Say things like, 'You tried your best!' or 'Next time we’ll get it!' Avoid language that shames or criticizes. Children need to feel safe and supported during this learning process. The way you talk about accidents can shape their self-image—gentle, non-judgmental communication will help them stay motivated. Reinforce that making mistakes is okay and part of learning, and that you’re proud of their efforts no matter what.
Be patient with setbacks
Setbacks are a normal part of potty training, and it's important not to view them as failures. Your child may regress for a variety of reasons—stress, illness, big life changes, or simply because they’re still learning. Stay calm and avoid punishment. Instead, reassure your child and gently guide them back on track. Say something like, 'That’s okay, we’ll try again next time.' The way you handle setbacks teaches your child how to deal with challenges. Patience, empathy, and consistency are key. If you find yourself getting frustrated, take a step back and remember that every child learns at their own pace.
Lead by example
Children often mimic the behavior of adults, so letting them see you or older siblings use the toilet can demystify the process. If you're comfortable, talk them through the steps: flushing, washing hands, etc. This helps them understand what’s expected. You can also role-play with dolls or stuffed animals to demonstrate the potty process. Use phrases like, 'Bear needs to go potty!' to keep it playful. When your child sees using the toilet as a normal and everyday activity, they’re more likely to follow along. Modeling behavior helps turn potty time into a familiar, non-threatening part of their routine.
Dress for success
Clothing can make a big difference in potty training success. Choose clothes that are easy to remove quickly—elastic waistbands, dresses, or pull-on pants. Avoid overalls, belts, or tight buttons that can be frustrating for a child in a hurry. If they struggle to get undressed in time, they may have more accidents, which can be discouraging. Make sure your child practices pulling their clothes up and down as part of the training process. This also builds independence and boosts confidence. The easier it is for them to get to the potty, the more likely they’ll succeed at using it consistently.
Celebrate small wins
Recognize and celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. Did your child sit on the potty for the first time? Give a big smile and say, 'That’s amazing!' Did they stay dry all morning? Time for a happy dance or sticker on their chart. Celebrations don’t have to be extravagant—simple words of encouragement or fun routines can be incredibly motivating. These moments reinforce that they’re on the right track. Avoid comparing your child’s progress to others. Every child develops differently. Celebrate their personal victories and keep the focus on progress, not perfection. Positive reinforcement makes learning stick and builds confidence.
Stay consistent, even in public
One of the biggest challenges in potty training is maintaining consistency outside the home. Whether you’re at the park, a friend’s house, or shopping, bring your routine with you. Carry a travel potty or a foldable seat cover, spare clothes, and wipes. Give reminders just as you would at home. If your child is used to potty breaks every hour, continue that schedule wherever you are. Consistency tells your child that using the potty is part of everyday life, not just something we do at home. Being prepared for public outings boosts their confidence and reduces the stress of accidents.