Setbacks & Challenges

Tips for Stubborn Toddlers Who Refuse the Potty

When your toddler firmly declares "No potty!" despite showing all the signs of readiness, it can test even the most patient parent. This practical guide addresses the common challenge of potty resistance with understanding and effective strategies. We explore the underlying reasons for stubbornness—from fear and control issues to sensory sensitivities—and provide tailored approaches for each. Learn how to use playfulness, storytelling, and peer modeling to overcome resistance without power struggles. Discover when offering choices can help and when too many options overwhelm. With specific techniques for the especially strong-willed child and guidance on recognizing when to temporarily step back, you'll find the right balance between encouragement and respect for your child's autonomy.

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