Encouraging Words: What to Say (and Not Say) During Potty Training

The words you choose during potty training can significantly impact your child's confidence, motivation, and emotional experience. This thoughtful guide provides specific language examples that encourage without pressuring and support without shaming. We offer positive phrases for different situations—from successful potty trips to inevitable accidents—along with alternatives to common negative responses that can create anxiety. Learn how to use descriptive praise that builds body awareness, question techniques that promote self-recognition of potty needs, and encouraging responses that maintain momentum during plateaus. With guidance on adjusting your language for different temperaments and developmental stages, you'll develop a vocabulary that nurtures your child's growing independence while strengthening your supportive connection.